Sorry

February 5, 2018

I apologize for taking so long to update you, my cherished friends, on my journey since being diagnosed for Multiple Myeloma.

I have had a good year. Incidentally, I am officially retiring from being the Headmaster at Trinity Christian School at the end of this school year. My son-in-law, Mark Anthony, is taking my position. He will be a great leader for the school. This past June he received his Doctorate from Fuller Theological Seminary.

The Lord has blessed the school. It has grown from 300 students when I arrived to over 1200 presently. We have over 400 high school students enrolled, and we’re building a brand new building for them on our main campus. (Hey, donations accepted!)

Anyway, my energy level has been on a decline. I usually “hit the wall” in the mid-afternoon. I pickup my 4 year-old grand-daughter, Boston, and take her home to her mother, Ashley, who only lives 5 minutes from us. That picks me up. Then, it’s usually straight to my chair for an afternoon recharging nap.

I am scheduled this month to have my year-four (post transplant) bone marrow biopsy and skeletal x-ray so any change in my health can be detected. So far, so good. My oncologist actually used the term “active remission” to describe my present condition. As Pastor Moses Vegh used to say, ” We’re not looking for the undertaker … we’re looking for the Uppertaker.” I still take a Revlimid capsule every day ($17,000 per month paid by Aetna, PTL) and I must regularly have my blood levels checked for early detection of any issues.

People ask me what I am going to do when I retire. When they do, I realize that they don’t know Patty well enough … she no doubt will have a plan for each day. She will continue to work as the office manager at the church. She loves her work and still has the health and energy to do it. Seriously, I will take on projects at the school and be available for whatever Mark needs done. There are also buses full of students to drive and school sporting events to attend. I love the students and can’t bear to be away from them too much.

The Lord showed me that He will take care of our needs. He also clearly showed me that I will maintain my spiritual influence upon the school THROUGH PRAYER. These reassurances mean a great deal to me.

Here’s something to add to your spiritual arsenal: “Don’t tell God how big your problem is … tell your problem how big your God is!”

Thanks for reading this. Send me a comment if you’d like.

Also, remember that I publish a daily devotional that is up every morning by 6 a.m.

http://www.tcsdevos.org

 

5 Responses to “Sorry”

  1. WAYNE BALDRIDGE's avatar WAYNE BALDRIDGE Says:

    Very pleased to hear you are forging ahead with His strength! You have our respect and love. Have a blessed year!

  2. Janet Shell's avatar Janet Shell Says:

    So glad to hear the good report Dean! Sounds like your future plans are a perfect fit for you. Blessings and love to you and Patty!

  3. Gary Anthony's avatar Gary Anthony Says:

    I may have joked many years that you are my out-law in the family, but you have been and always will be my brother in Christ.
    I have been an uneducated observer of TCS these years of your service and devotion to these young people. This I do know we serve an Awesome God and you have been blessed by Him.
    Your inspiration and devotion to these students and our God have been recognized and acknowledged by us all and we all have been blessed.
    God Bless You Dean Demos, we love you and looking forward to spending some retirement with you even though we know we can’t keep up with you. Gary A.

  4. Joanne Horvath's avatar Joanne Horvath Says:

    Dean..you and Patty have always been dear friends of ours and it is so good to hear from you and how you are doing. We will be continuing to lift you up in our prayers remembering that Moses always said “He may be late but He is always on time”.
    Love you both…Lee and Joanne
    ps…it’s a small world…Ernie Weaver was in our congregation 2 weeks ago….and Larry Titus is speaking on a Sunday in March..

  5. John V's avatar John V Says:

    Blessings to u Dean as u prepare for ur retirement. We will keep u, Mark and Trinity in prayer as you all enter a new season and things change.
    I am well aware of “recharging naps” and the need to close the eyes briefly in the afternoon. I don’t accept the “u r getting older” comment from my Dr, but charge it to the season of MM treatments. PTL I have been off ALL meds since Sept. 2017!! U r COVERED in prayer DAILY!!

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